Hello! I'm Tiga-Rose Nercessian (she/her)

Raised by posh hippies, as I child I was endlessly fascinated by almost everything, especially people and why they did the things they do. I was cheerful, introspective, and relentlessly curious (not much has changed!).

Now snuggled into my 40's, I am proud to say I’m a mixed race, queer, kinky, non-monogamous, multi-neurodivergent person (AuDHD with PDA, synaesthesia, and hyperphantasia).

I lead a quietly subversive life. I’m an ‘and’ person more than an ‘or’ person. I an pro-science and pro-spirituality.

These aspects of who I am form and inform me and my practice.

I’m British and live in my dream home in a rural French village, with my earnest and adoring rescue dog, Laniakea, and Entropy, my heterochromatic Angora Van cat.

My Story

Throughout my 20’s and 30’s, I slowly, and often painfully, learned to put words to my feelings and experiences. In my intimate relationships, I knew I wanted something different and unconventional, but I didn’t know what to call it or how to ask for it.

Often achingly painful, and frequently anxiety-inducing, no matter what I did, intimate relationships seemed nearly impossible. Sex was easy, but love, not so much...

I’ve come to appreciate my process as a million trial and error experiments in love and intimacy. 

Now I support and empower others on their unique intimacy journeys.