Tired of the same old routine in the bedroom?
Do you long for a deeper connection?
(Who doesn't?!)
The Play Together, Stay Together course is exactly what you need! In just two fun-filled months you could laugh your way to a sizzling sex life! This easy-to-follow online course is designed to help couples like you reignite the spark and create a more satiating and satisfying sex life.
Why Play Together, Stay Together?
Play Together, Stay Together is your guide to creating a more passionate and playful relationship in only two months.
Imagine:
- Effortlessly communicating your desires and needs. No more awkward silences or guessing games.
- Exploring new levels of intimacy and connection. Discover a deeper understanding of yourself and your partner.
- Experiencing more satisfying and adventurous sex. Unlock a world of shared pleasure and excitement.
What Will We Do?
Play Together, Stay Together offers a structured approach to having open and honest conversations about sex. It helps couples:
- Have guided and boundaried conversations: Feel held and supported in your exploration.
- Communicate better about their needs and desires: Overcome awkwardness and learn to express themselves clearly.
- Deepen their emotional connection: Build a stronger bond through shared vulnerability and understanding.
- Experience more satisfying sex: Explore new possibilities and reignite the spark in their relationship.
- Learn practical tools and techniques: Gain actionable strategies for enhancing intimacy and pleasure.
Why Is It Called
Play Together, Stay Together?
The name "Play Together, Stay Together" comes from years of experience working with happy - and unhappy - couples.
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Play Together: Sex shouldn't be a chore or a source of anxiety, but rather a playful and enjoyable experience shared between partners. I want you to have fun, be silly, muck about, and try different stuff, with a sense of ease, adventure, and spontaneity.
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Stay Together: Whatever your relationship structure, poly, ENM, monogamous, or something in between, there are significant long-term benefits of prioritising intimacy and good communication. These conversations help you do just that.
What's In It?
What You'll Get:
Everything you need to transform your sex life, in an easy to follow step-by-step format, including:
- 8 Engaging Conversations To Practice:
Each one has a silly name and focuses on a specific topic, designed to spark meaningful dialogue and deepen your connection. - 8 Conversation Guidance Videos:
Short, helpful explainer videos that introduce each topic and provide valuable insights. - 8 Downloadable Conversation Handouts:
Easily practice and reinforce key concepts, and use the prompts provided to facilitate fun, guided discussions.
What Topics?
Week 1: Cultivating emotional intimacy
Week 2: Sharing availability for sexual intimacy
Week 3: Expressing initiating preferences.
Week 4: Clarifying turn-ons and turn-offs
Week 5: Rest & Catch Up Week
Week 6: Defining your personal definition of sex
Week 7: Expanding your vocabulary about sex
Week 8: Curating a shared sexual menu
Week 9: How to offer a little extra spice!
Meet Your Course Creator
I am Tiga-Rose Nercessian (she/her), a Sex and Relationship Psychotherapist specialising in erotically minoritised people, including those who are neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+, kinky, queer, and non-monogamous.
Tiga-Rose Nercessian (she/her)
I’m an accredited Sex and Relationship Psychotherapist. I’m also a specialist trainer and academic researcher. I have been working in this field since 2015.
I have an innate awareness of what most people don’t look at, either because they don’t want to or can’t bring themselves to do so alone.
When we work together, it’s important that you feel heard, held, seen, and safe. My work is trauma-informed and neurodivergent-affirming.
Personally, I am a queer, multi-neurodivergent, multi-ethnic synaesthete. These aspects of who I am form and inform me and my practice.
My aim is to support and empower you to have happier, healthier, and more fulfilling relationships with yourself and others – whatever that looks like for you.
For All Intimate Partner Relationships
Even for the happiest of couples, talking about sex can be tricky. A lot of us don't even know where to begin!
Having worked with hundreds of people in intimate relationships, I have put together the most useful conversations I use in my work. Together, they provide a solid, structured foundation to have fun and meaningful conversations about sex.
What Do We Do?
Don't worry, it's easy peasy lemon squeezy!
Step 1: Each week, you'll be sent a reminder to log in and access the materials for that week.
Step 2: Access the course in the Intimata online platform.
Step 3: Print out that week's conversation handout.
Step 4: Together, watch the short instructional video and complete the conversation, using the handout for guidance.
Step 5: Laugh and play your way to new discoveries about each other - and then put them into practice!
Is this For Us?
Play Together, Stay Together for couples:
- At any age and stage of their relationship
- Ready to invest in their intimacy and create a more passionate and fulfilling connection
- Struggling to communicate about sex and intimacy
- Seeking new and fun ways to connect and keep the spark alive
- Open to having relaxed, laughter-filled conversation
- Wanting more intimate connection than ever before!
Couples who are willing to embrace a sense of silliness, playfulness and adventure in their sex life will resonate with the course's approach.
Anyone It Isn't For?
"Play Together, Stay Together" is not a good fit for:
- Couples experiencing severe relationship issues: Couples facing significant challenges like infidelity, abuse, coercion, or deep-seated conflict should seek help from a qualified therapist.
- Anyone seeking a quick fix: Improving intimacy takes time, effort, and vulnerability. This course requires a willingness to engage in difficult conversations.
- People who are not comfortable discussing sex: Individuals who are extremely uncomfortable with talking about sex, even with their partner.
- Couples looking for explicit sexual instruction or advice.
- Anyone who is unwilling to be honest and vulnerable.
Sign Up Now!
Coming May 2025
Sign up now to receive an exclusive early bird discount voucher for Play Together, Stay Together.
The Play Together, Stay Together course will be available from May 2025. Those who sign up before will receive a hefty discount voucher to use when it launches, as a thank you for your ongoing support for Intimata and the content we make for you.
